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So, I am in an open relationship with my wonderful amazing boyfriend, whom I love :)
I have a couple lovely fuckbuddies- they're the best for stress relief. I am always looking for cool people to chill with... and maybe more ;)

but let me make this clear: I'm really not looking for male fuckbuddies these days. my sexual preferences are slowly but surely warping into something i can't quite label. It just seems like the only guy I'm attracted to is my boyfriend. with girls, though... i'm like a 13 year old boy: girl-crazy.

I smoke pot. If you're not down with that, stop reading now and go away. also, it's very rare that i enjoy spending time with non-smokers. i'm just sayin'...
if you are down with that, i <3 new smoking buddies :)

Yes:

• my own opinions
• style
• money
• getting out of trouble
• my siamese cat
• music
• musicians
• sex
• boys with tattoos
• travel
• british & german accents
• manicures&massages
• expensive things
• people with good taste
• hot style
• anything out of the ordinary...

No:

• country music
• bitches other than myself
• ignorant people
• school
• expectations
• stalkers
• psych wards
• rules/authority
• reality tv
• cowards
• paranoia...

!and!

i especially loathe those folks who are dull enough

to be satisfied with whatever the media feeds them.

I'm working part time at a lovely little fabric store in Normal Heights while I wait for classes to start in the fall.

i'm a student. i would really like to get into veterinary medicine
...or i could be a starving artist or a poet.

i love kids, but don't want any. ever.

i am a painter. i work with acrylics, gouache and watercolor, as well as multimedia like cosmetics and burnt things. i like expressionistic abstraction... it suits me quite well.

i am a writer. mostly short stories and poetry. i am a reading fiend. i don't have a tv, so much of my time is spent reading or writing. i'm not totally against tv, i torrent nip/tuck, and lost.

i am a stoner. i believe in the legalization of marijuana. i believe in safe, enjoyable recreational drug use.

conversation, sex, listening. i am an amazing friend. i am extraordinarily loyal to my friends and will defend them with all i have. that being said, you don't want to be on my bad side.

my boobies! theyre E-Cups. there, now you don't have to ask.

or my eyes, or my constant smirk.

old people seem to notice my septum piercing before anything else

Most of the time I wish I were invisible so I could just watch people.

Books: biguenet, palahniuk, steinbeck, camus, huxley, place, rand, hemingway, blake, rice, stoppard, vonnegut, ehrenreich, heinlein, orwell, keret

tv freaks and geeks, monty python's flying circus, lost, nip/tuck, family guy, weeds, dexter, arrested development, the office and when i'm really sick i watch jerry springer just to make fun of those less fortunate than i. hicks are funny.

Movies: Everything Is Illuminated, The Baxter, Amelie,Goodbye Mr. Chips, The Pianist, Run Lola Run, Nightmare Before Christmas, Edward Scissorhands, Sleepy Hollow, The Godfather, Brokeback Mountain, The Nomi Song, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, Fight Club, Layer Cake, Secretary, Black Dahlia, Velvet Goldmine, Memento, Ferris Bueller's Day Off, Borat, Dot The I, A Mighty Heart, The Fountain, Brick, Fitzcarraldo

Music, In Completely Arbitrary Categories:

SD Locals: Steve Poltz, Carlos Olmeda Gregory Page, Jack Conte, Jason Mraz, Angela Correa, Anna Troy, Hatchet Brothers, The Rugburns, Blackout Party, The Truckee Brothers, Tom Brosseau

Old Stuff: Donovan, Grateful Dead, Led Zeppelin, CSNY, Jimi Hendrix, Simon & Garfunkel, Pink Floyd, David Bowie, T.Rex, Journey, Bob Dylan, Maria Muldaur, The Chieftains

Reggae: Lee Scratch Perry, Toots & The Maytals, Easy Star All-Stars, Peter Tosh, 10 Ft. Ganga Plant

Dead People: Jeff Buckley, Sublime, Klaus Nomi, Bob Marley, Queen The Beatles, Elliott Smith

New Stuff: Arcade Fire, Decemberists, White Stripes, Belle & Sebastian, Bright Eyes, Regina Spektor, Fiona Apple, Patrick Wolf, Interpol, Radiohead, Cat Power, Morrissey, Death Cab For Cutie, Imogen Heap, Amy Winehouse, Lily Allen, James, Slightly Stoopid, 311, Nouvelle Vague, Flaming Lips, Dresden Dolls, Ben Folds Five, Jenny Lewis, Mew, Reel Big Fish, Peaches, Spoon, Alanis Morissette, Beck, Rufus Wainwright, The Cranberries, Voxtrot, The Real Tuesday Weld, Yeah Yeah Yeahs

On a Heavier Note: Marilyn Manson, Dream Theater, Metallica, Coheed & Cambria, Evanescence, Primus, Tool, Lacuna Coil, Rammstein, System Of A Down

Dancing Music: Infected Mushroom, VnV Nation, Bauhaus, Depeche Mode, Tears For Fears, The Cure, Teddybears, Apoptygma Berserk, Cocteau Twins, Love Spirals Downwards, Skazi, t.a.t.u., Scissor Sisters, santogold

Food: anything japanese, thai or vietnamese. grilled cheese sandwiches, burritos, and guacamole are amazing too. and carrots.

my macbook pro books cell phone sex friends sleep

sex, music, my hands, the future, the meaning of life, how small we all are in the grand scheme of things...

any combination of the following:

movies

concert at lestat's

dinner with friends

old school slumber party

getting drunk and/or stoned

at the coffeeshop... kind of like every other day...

i'm unlike anyone else.

i can be quite shallow/bitchy/judgemental at times, but hey, i'm a girl.

i have a lot of sex, probably more than is healthy

my nipples are pierced. they feel good

i tend to get what i want, even if i don't do much to get it. it just happens.

you have good taste in music, movies, or anything else... perhaps you should scroll back up and read what i have to say instead of going directly to my pictures (but if you did that you wouldn't be reading this anyway)... who knows? maybe i'll quiz you, maybe you should take notes...

• please do not message me if you are not in the san diego area and/or are over 33 years old.
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• pervs, trolls, assholes, jerks, meanies, stalkers and creeps of any kind are not appreciated, go away.
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• also, do not message me if you do not have pictures posted. i don't care if you have them on your myspace can email them to me... if you have pics somewhere else then you should take 30 seconds and post them on your profile. it's not that hard, really. if you're as attractive as you say/think you are, i'm sure it won't be a problem to get a friend to take a picture of you.
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  if any of the above things apply to you, i am not interested and will block you because you should have read this.